<h1 style="text-align: center;">Effort Vs. Reward</h1>
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<p>Do you know the levels of attraction that you are getting vs. how much work you will need to put in to get laid with specific single girls? More importantly are you even aware that girls act differently and according to their personalities and attraction levels towards you? I bet few readers here can tell when a girl is actually attracted to them, at the very least, at some point during our lives as men, most men probably learned (usually too late) that someone thought they were hot, and you didn’t even realize it. One of my keys to game, is getting to know the reward vs. effort when attempting to bang chicks, because I believe, putting too much effort into banging a girl is detrimental – some may see it as improving your dating game, but the proper reaction to certain girls actually is improving <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/">your dating game</a>, because I don’t believe you should ever have to feel like you are working to get her naked, nor should you actually have to work hard to get her naked. Both go hand in hand, because if you are working for it, it means you are chasing it, which means your dating game isn’t tight, and it means your needy on some level, which of course creates more work for you to overcome, a vacuum that you need to fill with game. So knowing when it just ain’t gonna happen with a girl, no matter what game you spit, is invaluable, as you will be free to move on the next one with no frustrations or bothersome analysis of your game. Roosh recently had a great blog about not getting frustrated or angry with a girl when an interaction goes bad, it’s probably something you did, and I completely agree with him, if there was some initial attraction to begin with. And I think it’s key that a big part of game, should be understanding your opponent (and that’s <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia-dating-service.html?page=5">what single girls are</a>) as well as learning how to read them, and learning a little of women’s very different psychology ( meaning, where the hell are they in life, and being able to read that within 3 minutes of talking to a single girl). This of course can help both your own self esteem after an interaction goes sour, but also gives you the reality of selecting her (dhv) rather than scrambling to remember what questions will create that illusion.</p>
<h2>Behavioral Signs of Female Interest and Game Effort</h2>
<p>But what are these different ways that girls show interest, or disinterest? It’s pretty simple, and I’ll go through the basic and general ways she behaves if she’s interested and how much work you will need to sleep with her, if you can.</p>
<h4>1. High Interest</h4>
<p>She initiates conversation with you, but seems very self conscious about your response, is smiling like a goof ball, and looking downwards nervously. This one is easy. You don’t need to run any dating game at all, except the basic aloof manner, but you could probably get by without even that. Why? She thinks you are of higher value but her interest in you is higher than her insecurity. <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia-dating-service.html?gender=female&page=7">Many girls</a> may feel this way, but there are a few that just bite the bullet and start talking to you. If you notice a girl is happily nervous around you, you’re in, ask her out, it’s easy. These girls can be sensitive to too much teasing, will question whether you are serious or not, gets self conscious. Do not neg too much. EDIT: I forgot to include there are girls that will give you the fuck me stare down and general drunken be all over you type of high interest, again, it’s pretty obvious how little game you need here. Just don’t be a nice guy, polite, or do/say something stupid, and you’re in.</p>
<h4>2. Moderate Interest</h4>
<p>These girls are the whole reason why game exists. The girls that don’t necessarily project their interest openly, they do not want to come off as ‘easy’. Their clues of interest can range from fairly subtle, to seemingly completely disinterested in you. These are the girls that are not comfortable with themselves in social situations, so they don’t really know how to display proper attraction signals. Most guys she wants end up not asking her out, talking to her, or just walking by her because they think she’s a bitch, cold, uninterested, or just doesn’t acknowledge the world around them. Even when you talk to them, they can range from a little nervous, to sarcastic to over confidence. Of course whenever these types try and show off their ‘intelligence’, ‘sense of humor’, ‘social dominance’ then she’s interested, but she is also testing you to see if you can handle her. They may briefly initiate conversations with you, but her inner desires will be hidden behind many walls that she needs you to jump hoops through. Key tells on these girls: Her proximity to you, will be close, but not too close. She will subconsciously flip her hair, groom herself, lick her lips, shift eyes frequently, make a stupid joke that she gets embarrassed about, takes repeated sips from her drink, plays with her straw in a drink, plays with anything near her. If you haven’t talked to her yet, she will awkwardly dive into her phone so she isn’t caught looking at you or being too open, if not alone and you haven’t approached and she’s aware of you, she will talk with her friends but where you can be seen in her peripheral vision (she will angle her self so that you are facing the side of her face – or sometimes in a club, she will put herself between you and her friend, so the friend will check out to see if you’re checking her out – learn to look for this and read lips – sometimes it can be not in a good way). Effort to bang her: This ranges depending on each person. But generally moderate to high game. You go at these girls with weak game and you’ll be sniffed out and spit out back into the beta chum floating around her. She’s the one that wants a man strong enough to handle her insanity. These girls are also the most insane. She knows how to flirt, but she’s also very defensive on who she does it with, she don’t want no beta.</p>
<h4>3. Minimal Interest</h4>
<p>Otherwise known as super flirts. Often mistaken for High Interest girls because of the ease and magnitude of her teasing. If a girl does nothing but tease with you, she’s only interested in attention, not in to letting you bang them. But, they don’t do this with everyone, despite what you believe. Usually super flirts are super insecure, and use this flirtations and beta orbiters to make her feel good. But she still mainly does it with guys she somewhat attracted to. She will trigger every attraction trigger in you until you make any moves or show signs of escalation where she will pull back or deflect, and then resume her actions once you withdraw a little. Push pull game will be a waste because that’s usually all you will be doing the whole time. These girls want the attention more than sex, but her ‘gina most likely does tingle for you. Amount of game needed to bang: <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/04/27/i-completely-suck-at-handling-romantic-rejection/">Master level game</a>. Aloof mastery will win her over, only the man who can give a little teasing and then withdraw and not care about her will get her, any other type of game will give away your trying, and to a super flirt, who is very observant, she will disqualify you from sex if you try, or care. Minimal outside game required only aloofness and charisma, internal game must be rock solid.</p>
<h4>4. Not Interested</h4>
<p>Closed off body language, actually interested in friends and others around her, actually into her phone, responds to you only if you directly speak with her. Will seem defensive and <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia-dating-service.html?gender=male">many single men</a> think this is a sign of interest, it isn’t. She smiles only in a curt forced smile, her conversation with you seems like a job interview or very formal. She is cold, indifferent, and annoyed. Everything about her wants to get away from you. If she gives you her number, it is to get rid of you. Levels of effort or game needed: Extremely high and tight game. Too much work, I would advise not bothering with these girls and move on with no analysis of game necessary afterwards. Forget em. These girls are usually status whores, girls looking for specific types of men you happen to not be, rich, meat head, younger, older, whatever, she isn’t looking for you and you would need to expend too much energy and effort for very limited chances of success.</p>
<h2>Effect of Sexual Market Value on Attraction</h2>
<p>That is the basic attraction levels one will find in the field. The amount of girls each man receives is directly affected by his SMV. A very attractive or alpha male or high status male will find a higher amount of 1’s and 2’s and 3′s in his life; an average man, beta or alpha minor will find some 1’s majority will be 2′s and 4′s, below average with no game will get mainly 4′s. Many men mistakenly go after the 4′s with the highest intensity because they seem the most challenging. It is in men’s logical brains that assume the most challenging woman will be the most rewarding, but if you know women at all, you know that nothing about them is logical. The actual most rewarding experience will be the 1’s and 2’s types. The effort is minimal, that adoration and sweetness is high, with stronger sexual vibes. The most gratifying sex however is with the 3’s, but sadly only alpha’s can bang them, or their specific safe beta provider who they allow to have sex with them and won’t hurt them. So use this template when out in the field and while you’re interacting with girls in order to find the least amount of work you will need to put into a bang, from there you can determine if she’s hot enough for the required effort you will need. I will follow this up with a psychological post in the future.</p>
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